Is it possible to make the wrong decision?

Hindsight would tell us that we frequently make wrong decisions but is this really so?

“If you obsess over whether you are making the right decision, you are basically assuming that the universe will reward you for one thing and punish you for another.

The universe has no fixed agenda. Once you make any decision, it works around that decision. There is no right or wrong, only a series of possibilities that shift with each thought, feeling, and action that you experience.”  ―  Deepak ChopraThe Book of Secrets: Unlocking the Hidden Dimensions of Your Life

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As one of those people who sometimes struggles when making decisions,  I find the above quote reassuring. The minor choices which arise, such as what to choose from a menu, I’m okay with. No dreadful consequences if I select a ghastly meal other than the need to make peanut butter on toast when I get home.

When I have an important decision to make I tend to gather information; ask the opinions of family and friends in an crystal ballattempt to think through the options logically. This works to a degree but trying to see into the future without the aid of a crystal ball remains unreliable.

I am in the process of completing my first novel. The final edit is almost done and I’d like to see it in print. Would it be better to get an agent, go directly to publishers or attempt the self-publishing route?

After seeking advice and receiving – as you would expect – opposing opinions, I’m still in a quandary. All three options have been used with success but what would be right for me? It feels like such an important decision, as though the success or failure of the novel depends on the choice I make.

But is this so?

According to Ralph Waldo Emerson, an American lecturer and poet who took a great interest in the soul and led the transcendentalist movement in the 19th century:

Once you make a decision, the universe conspires to make it happen.

Fantastic! No more deliberating over the ‘correct’ choice; no more sleepless nights meditating on whether to do this or that! Whatever we choose to do will turn out for the best to align with our position in the universe.

Seems like we can’t lose doesn’t it? However…

Reading around this subject a little further I understand – and I may be wrong here – that this does not necessarily mean the result will be what we desire. The result will depend on our relationship with the universe, the intentions behind our desire and what is in our best interests at that stage of our life. Basically, you don’t always get what you want!

robberFor example: A man – or woman, let’s not be sexist! – plans to rob a jewellers and emigrate to the Caribbean. He deliberates on the best method. Should he ram the shop window with a van, take the goodies and drive away? Or should he go in, armed with a weapon, order the staff to put the goodies in his SWAG bag and leg it home? If he rams the shop with a van and gets caught he will probably say: Damn, should have gone in with the gun! The chances are,  the universe will not sanction either method, the robbery being doomed from conception regardless of the decisions made on method.

If, however, he (or she) is a modern day Robin (Robina) Hood who intends to sell the jewels (which were obtained illegally by the jeweller) and use the proceeds to help feed and clothe refugees, well, the universe may take a different view and either method of theft may work.

Not the best example but hopefully you get the drift.

The only comfort I can take from all this is that whatever choice I make, if my book is meant to be seen in print, will be the correct one.

Fingers crossed! (Does this help, I wonder?)